So, how do I say this? I used to mostly sleep with black guys. Size was never a problem. But lately I've slept with quite a few white men, and twice I’ve been not only disappointed but even turned off by the lack of size. (Whoever says ”size doesn’t matter” can stop reading immediately and fuck off. It matters). Yes if you’re dating and are in loooove I'm sure it’s all different, but for me it’s just physical and when the physical is barely visible, what do you do? By the time you realise, it’s too late! You’re already in someone’s bedroom, making out, getting it on. It’s making me suspicious now, every time I meet someone new. Is it gonna be another disappointment? Maybe I should just request all future dates to wear grey sweatpants. Or ask for measurements.